A friend admitted that she and the baby daddy still remind each other how they conceived their kid post-breakup. But that is not the case for YY Comedian. He has set clear rules with his ex, content creator Marya Okoth, who has since moved on and is now married.
Speaking with podcaster Alex Mwakideu, YY said that once a relationship ends, the ex should only be treated as an ex. He said all old privileges should be taken away, and both people must know their limits.
“I do not know, but it is not right, even for me,” YY said when asked if an ex should enter your house to pick up the child.
“When someone is your ex, you deal with them in the capacity of an ex. You deprive them of privileges they had before, and they deprive you of privileges you had before.”
He said that once you break up, the ex becomes like another person. But they should still be treated with respect because of the child you share.
YY’s main focus is the well-being of his child. He said both parents must think about the child first and not their feelings.
“You really have to bow down to the child,” he said.
YY said he avoids arguments with his child’s mother because fights bring bad energy. If she says something he doesn’t agree with, he chooses to stay silent. He also avoids saying bad things about her to their child.
“Anytime you try to punish that woman, you are punishing the child,” he said.
YY Comedian Dad Responsibilities
YY Comedian also takes care of his responsibilities as a father. He pays school fees and medical bills. He spends weekends with his daughter.
He picks her up from school on Friday and dropps her back on Monday unless her mother has other plans.
YY said he plans to have one or two more children in the future, but only in a serious and stable relationship.
He said he respects Marya because she gave birth to his child. That is why he mostly avoids talking about their private life in interviews.
By Vivian K.